What does Valentines day means to you if i ask you?
According to many folks its a DAY for love, but my question is why only one day for love? I would like to say, people who are really in love they celebrate each day as Valentines day. Though now a days, it has become a FAD for teenagers in schools and colleges because their maturity level about love for each other doesn't reach to that extent where even silence speaks between a couple, that is what actual LOVE is.
Love doesn't need any PROVE, big GIFTS and FLOWERS but lies in very subtle things which a couple do for each other everyday. I know one couple who are not so young but still act like ones by their heart. My landlords in Bangalore, they have 3 daughters who are married and settled now and i have seen this couple growing old together, still laughing and singing together, that's love. I have even seen my parents growing with love to each other. Love is not when you just liked the person and asked for date, its about the feeling to "grow old together". Love is something accepting each others differences with GRACE and SMILE, its all about respecting, understanding and giving space to each other. I remember once one couple well said "if people start using the word ACCEPTANCE rather than EXPECTATION in any kind of relationship whether its a child and parent, husband wife, brother sis, world will become a better place to live".So I'll conclude my article by saying that Valentines day is for them who forget to love whole year and that day is just like a reminder to them..;)

          So guys, May you all have an exuberant love life...:)


Why can't people just be happy all the time!!! I know that's a real stupid question but just ask yourself once that who is the most elated person in the world- KIDS, BABIES but why, because they just keep on doing their own work, don't bother at all whats going on around, they just enjoy themselves. I just read somewhere that the best way to be happy is to have a SHORT TERM MEMORY and GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR. I really liked it, just give a thought why do some people just keep on thinking on some topic which they cant solve and if they can (as every problem has solution) then why cant they just solve it.I mean ok, LIFE is not always fair but so whaattt..nothing is PERMANENT here too. I literally believe in action rather than words or thoughts. I know you must be thinking that its easy to write but trust me its easier to apply. It all depends on your attitude and how  you take it, everybody has problem, EACH and EVERYBODY STRUGGLE, some overcomes it and some leads their life to depth of despair and dismay but only one thing that makes them different is their ATTITUDE. Its YOU, only you who can CHOOSE to be HAPPY or to be DESPAIR. Believe me, LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL, LIVE it, You should be happy that you are blessed with THIS LIFE, CHOOSE your decisions wisely with a SMILE. Live Exuberantly!! :)