It’s been a long time I have pen-down any of my thoughts on
paper. Life becomes busy as you grow up, and I don’t like growing up. Well, I have
been occupied at work since the month of April, and then one day one of my colleagues
shared that she might leave the job very soon. I was sad, very sad not because
she sits beside me and I enjoy her company, not because we have shared secrets
and are very close to each other, not because of any obvious reasons to feel
bad when someone you like leaves, perhaps I was just appreciating her presence
around since her joining, that’s it, but why was I sad hearing the news of her
leaving all of us?
This thought made me write down, well this is what I call it
as Attachment, it can be dangerous at
times. The scenario I mentioned above is just the source of my incessant
thoughts on an emotional prospect of a life: Attachment.
That reminds me of Jiah Khan’s case. Personally, I would not
like to comment on anyone’s personal life, but according to the news it is
explained that she committed suicide because of an unhealthy relationship. That’s
the point, when you are so attached to someone that you start giving more value
to that life than your own, you stop respecting your own worth, and I would
call it as a negative attachment. Because
it holds you down, makes you stagnant, and stops you from growing but very
unlikely, the good attachment I would define as something
that sets you free, makes you more beautiful and provides you peace with
yourself. What I really want to say here is that being attached with somebody
is fine but overdoing is not fine at all, it is dangerous instead.
And, why only human relationships I should talk about, what
about that dress in your wardrobe that does not fit you anymore, what about
that beautiful shaped glass jar in your kitchen which is getting old without
being used, open the store cabinet and see the roughly opened gift still
wrapped with the same wrapping paper: Attachment
is not only limited to any human relationship, it is an emotional relationship even
with inanimate things.
Try to make your life clutter-free by taking out these
unnecessary relationships or things, because you are the creator of your own
future and life is all about what you chose.